I was just discussing with Magalie: she was under the impression that Leah was the sort that would just walk away. Sure, she would badmouth the daylights out of the person to anyone that can give her sympathy, but that's another matter. Did I have reason for concerns about her game-playing? Magalie's questions were, in my opinion, something that needs to be addressed. So . . .
I think it comes down to if she perceives a need. What might this need be? I have no idea, but the fact that I don't know doesn't mean I shouldn't be prepared. For Leah, the need might be nothing more than "I'm bored". In any case:
(1) Let's not forget that Leah already has a history of this with me. She dumped me for someone else, yet kept bugging me every chance she had. I made it VERY clear to her that I didn't want to talk to her, but she wouldn't leave me alone.
(2) With at least one "ex", after breaking up with him she showed up at his place disoriented, not sure why she was there, etc.
(3) She has logged on to one "ex"'s bank account and e-mail account, to see what he was doing.
(4) She has e-mailed "ex's". She told me she was just "poking" him in order to see what would happen.
(5) I know she has used various resources to find ex's on the web. She finds their profiles on personals sites, she finds their blogs, she finds their home addresses, etc.
There is one case of an "ex" with whom she has maintained a friendship. More power to him, but I will not be like that. I tend to have a flexible view of "friendship", but I would like to think that anyone that calls himself or herself a "friend" to me would . . . oh I don't know . . . show me some sympathy and concern when I receive a death threat. And besides, Leah's not exactly a sparkling conversationalist.
So, yes, that is why I have been concerned as to what she might do in the future, when she has a need or when she gets bored or whatever. I'm hoping that she will find my (deliberately placed) Livejournal links to this blog, and she will read what I have written. She will realize, I hope, that I am not available for whatever scheme she has planned, and she will leave me alone.
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